The best way I can think to explain intrusive thoughts, is through a personal example. As a child, my family would regularly attend church on a Sunday morning. Whilst sat in the pews, listening to the service, I would often have the most distressing and peculiar thought pop into my mind! I’d think, what if I stood up, made a loud noise to get everyone’s attention and pulled my trousers down, exposing my manhood to everyone in attendance.
This thought would be accompanied by a racing heart, sweating, and a feeling of heat rising up through my body, coming out through my throat! I’d start to panic inside; What did this thought mean? Why was I having this thought? This was the last thing I wanted to do, so why was I thinking it?
Intrusive thoughts are images and ideas that come into our minds uninvited. We have little control over them and everyone experiences them. They can be distressing and come in a variety of forms. So what is the difference between someone who has intrusive thoughts with OCD vs without? The answer is that people with OCD often assume their intrusive thoughts and dreams mean something. They may question whether they are having the thought because they want to act on it or whether it says something unacceptable about them. As a result, they get anxious and try to get rid of the thoughts. However, the more they fight them, the more sticky and frequent they can become, and the problem gets worse. If you’d like support from an OCD therapist, our blog how long do OCD flare-ups last explains what patterns are common, and OCD and Dreams looks at why dreams can feel so convincing.
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Intrusive thoughts can be extremely uncomfortable and when problems develop, it is not uncommon for people to feel hopeless. Fortunately, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is an evidence-based treatment, which is very effective in helping people to overcome OCD. Here are some concepts and techniques, which will help you understand how it works:
A study by Purdon and Clark (1993) took a pool of 293 individuals, none of which had OCD, and asked them what intrusive thoughts they experienced. The results were very interesting. For example, 48% of females and 60% of males had thoughts of ‘having sex with an unacceptable person’. The headline is that intrusive thoughts are normal. We need to accept that they are just thoughts. If you’d like to explore the wider picture, our blog Biological Explanations for OCD looks at the factors that can influence OCD symptoms.
If I tell you not to think of a pink elephant, what happens? That’s right, you think of a pink elephant. This is an example of how thought suppression doesn’t actually work. The more we try not to think of something, the more we think of it. Another strategy is to accept that we will have these thoughts, observe them and wait for them to go away on their own accord.
Accepting your intrusive thoughts will probably also mean feeling anxious, distressed and/or uncomfortable. Have faith: the more you experience these feelings, the less intense they will become. It is a scientific rule that if nothing bad happens and you sit with your anxiety for a prolonged period of time, it will decrease over time. You need to face your fears and tell yourself, ‘I can cope!’
Intrusive thoughts can be distressing and worrying. However, they do not hold meaning. Thoughts are just thoughts. If you find yourself struggling with problems related to the topics discussed in today’s blog, consider contacting us at NOSA to get an assessment. You can explore our therapy services, and if you’re looking for more focused support, our specialist OCD clinic may be a good fit. We can make treatment recommendations and help you overcome these problems. CBT is an effective therapy for OCD and help is out there if you need it.
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